Can you remember what it was like to be so deeply satisfied by finding just the right stick?
The one with the exact curve that lights up your imagination and transforms it into a broad sword, a broom, a wand, or a cane.
The one that fits your hand so perfectly and is just the right length and width. Ahh, how satisfying to the core.
And finally, it's river day! This stick of all sticks accompanies you across the grassy fields, down the winding path hidden in the trees, follows you down the steep path and through the rocky woods until, at last, you arrive at our spot at the eddy. Finally, the adventure can really begin!
But oh no, what's this? Now it's floating in the water, farther and farther away from shore, after an accidental throw while tossing rocks. Quickly, the search begins for a longer stick, a branch-anything to try and reach it! But the whirlpool grabs it, and it soon disappears.
Sentries are posted to watch as it travels along, popping up and bobbing back from the whirlpool, closer and then farther, closer and farther again.
Everyone tries to help save the day as tears and heartbreak overcome the stick owner. Dozens of commiserating stories, offers of replacement sticks, and pats on the back are gifted to the saddened owner.
Lunch comes and passes, heartbreak begins to lift just a smidge, and then suddenly, the stick is spotted again! and then lost again.
As the group walks the sandy shores, someone notices spring onions growing, another the burnt rocks from an old fire, and then, hidden under an old log is a marvelous stick; twisted and burnt, thick and sturdy, with a most unusual shape ... clearly, it's a fossil! A dragon's head! A new game begins with the (new) best stick of all sticks. And the soul is deeply satisfied again.
Not every river walk is this eventful, but whenever we are outside together, something rises in my awareness, reminding me how important and vital this time is to our class, each student, and their overall education and well-being. Students are lucky to live life together, to have time to experience the highs and lows and support one another through them.
Now, the students often bring up this story to encourage others or remind each other that sometimes good things happen after unexpected or sad situations. This kind of practice through play is a part of our school life in and out of the classroom; it's as essential a subject as math or literacy.
Here is an interesting read on why play is so essential to education.












